Therapy for Gifted, Analytical, and Neurodivergent Adults
For people who understand a lot about themselves, and still find that insight isn’t enough
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Many of the people I work with have always noticed more than the people around them.
Some experience the world with unusual depth and precision, registering emotional and relational patterns that others move right past.
You may need quiet after a day with people, catch the shift in someone’s tone before they say anything, or find that noise, crowds, and constant input wear you down in ways that puzzle the people around you.
Others grew up in their minds—reading early, thinking quickly, analyzing instinctively—often because it was the safest place to live.
And many carry both a fast-moving mind and a complex inner world.
Along the way, you may have learned to rely on competence, self-awareness, achievement, or self-control while keeping other parts of yourself carefully managed. You may have been described as “mature,” “gifted,” “perceptive,” or “too sensitive,” while quietly feeling different from the people around you in ways that were difficult to explain.
Even when outwardly capable, many people I work with carry a persistent sense of disconnection—from themselves, from other people, or from a life that no longer feels fully their own.
You might recognize yourself in phrases like:
- “I’ve always felt different, not in a bad way, just . . . different.”
- “I’m good at many things, so choosing one feels impossible.”
- “People think I’m put-together, but inside I feel lost.”
- “My worth has always been tied to achievement.”
- “I’m comfortable in my mind, but the rest of me feels harder to access.”
- “I’ve never really known how to just be myself without editing.”
This includes gifted and high-ability adults, highly sensitive people (HSPs), neurodivergent adults, former “gifted kids” who learned to make themselves smaller, and fellow therapists—people who spend so much of their lives supporting others that they need a place where they can finally be supported, seen, and held.
You don’t have to simplify yourself here. Your depth is welcome.
When the life you built no longer feels like yours
People often come to me in moments when life stops making sense—when the story they’ve lived no longer matches the story unfolding.
Sometimes the shift is sudden:
- a breakup or divorce you didn’t see coming
- career burnout, a layoff, or an industry shift that makes the old plan feel impossible
- a diagnosis that rearranges everything
- a loss that reshapes your world—of a person, a relationship, or a version of life you counted on
- a moment when you realize you can’t keep going the way you have
Other times the change is quieter. You reach a milestone you worked years for and find yourself asking, is that all there is? You question beliefs you never expected to question. You spent your life being what others needed, and now you aren’t sure who you are. You worked hard to create options, and now the options themselves feel overwhelming.
Some describe it as hiking in earthquake country; the ground itself is shifting under your feet.
You don’t have to navigate it alone.
What can become possible
You may already have tried very hard to change—through therapy, books, journaling, meditation, or years of trying to understand yourself. And still, things haven’t shifted.
It can be hard to keep hoping after that.
Sometimes the problem is the map, not your effort. Therapy can help you make sense of the territory and find new ways to move through it. Over time, what was once the knee-jerk reaction can become one option among several.
Change might look like:
- Facing reality with more support. A relationship that isn’t what you hoped, a body with limits, a career or identity that no longer fits, a diagnosis, or something important you cannot control. Acceptance can make room for grief, and for the possibilities that remain.
- Having better access to yourself. Noticing emotions, body signals, needs, wants, and limits before your body has to shout, and learning how to use that information without assuming every feeling is telling you the truth.
- Holding old stories and strategies more lightly. The ways you learned to analyze, achieve, please, withdraw, monitor the room, or handle everything yourself developed for reasons. The goal isn’t to get rid of them, but to have more choice about when they serve you, and more trust in your ability to decide.
- Having more room for life and connection. Asking for help sooner. Letting safe people know more of you. Recovering from difficult moments more quickly. Having more energy for relationships, creativity, meaningful work, curiosity, rest, and whatever else matters to you.
Sometimes change comes relatively quickly. And longstanding patterns around shame, relationships, identity, and self-trust can take more time to shift; a year and a half or two years of consistent therapy is not unusual. My goal is always to work myself out of a job: to help you carry what happens in therapy into a life with more freedom, connection, and choice.
How I work
My approach blends clarity, depth, and emotional attunement. I draw from:
- The NeuroAffective Relational Model (NARM) — for identity, agency, connection, attachment, and longstanding patterns
- Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART) — for trauma, emotional stuckness, and bridging the gap between what you understand intellectually and what your nervous system still carries
- Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP) — for depression, existential distress, depth, and meaning-making
- A neurodivergence-affirming lens, honoring sensitivity, intensity, and complexity
- My background in English and computer science, integrating story and system, metaphor and logic
Clients often describe therapy with me as steady, grounding, and spacious, a place where nothing has to be forced, rushed, or minimized.
You can read more about my background, training, and therapeutic approach on the About page.
Alongside my clinical work, I speak about living a connected, meaningful life without a prewritten script, especially after religion. See where I’ve spoken.
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Fees & Scheduling
My practice is private pay and structured around every-other-week appointments, with additional telehealth sessions available on alternate weeks when you need more support. Individual therapy is $200 for a 53-minute session. Superbills are available on request for out-of-network benefits.
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A note about availability
I am currently on sabbatical, making room for rest, writing, continued training, and an intentional transition into the next chapter of my work.
I plan to reopen in private practice in January 2027, seeing clients in person in Salt Lake City and online throughout Utah. If you’d like to be notified when scheduling becomes available, you’re welcome to join the notification list.